成功的定义英文翻译
成功的定义英文翻译
成功的定义是什么?在中国,成功的定义是什么?总有人会这么问。 答案是:“做自己.” 世俗对成功的定义是有钱,有车,有房,以及再有点别的物质的东西，其实不一样的人，成功的定义也不一样。以下是散文诗歌网小编分享的成功的定义英文翻译，一起来和小编看看吧。
关于成功的定义
We can list a lot about the standard of success: family happiness, prosperity and good health, give full play to their potential, to live with the goal to pursue, in the professional field has created, has been widely recognized and respected, contributing to society, to do their own love......
Each of us has his own definition of success. Everyone's concept of success is not the same, because everyone's personal experience, values and awareness of life are different. The success is probably really different, we have to find their own specific success criteria.
We also have different standards of success at different ages: school, work, marriage, career, education...... Confucius is planning a different tasks in different stages: sanshierli, at forty, fifty, sixty, seventy I knew no more than a moment and have whatever is desired.
My idea of success in the past is to have as many people as possible. The more people influence the better, the greater the degree of influence. I've been thinking about it a long time ago, and I know it's all about ego. When I was a young man, I worked as a TV show and became a host. Many years later, I became a teacher. I found that when a teacher can feel more intuitive to influence their own brings to others, and this impact is more far-reaching, this feeling in the host than entertain a lot better.
I think the book can affect many people, so wrote a book. Of course, soon found that can affect how many people depend on how your book sales, whether you will hype. I also think that movies can influence a lot of people, so I went to the movies and tried to write movies.
In short, think of what they do will affect a lot of people, feel very cool, feel great.
And then my thoughts changed.
A friend of mine, forty years old, frustrated, no girlfriend, mood is very low. I told him you weren't as successful as you thought.
Because I think some people around him seem to be a good mix of people, in the face of a bit of frustration, it showed unusual calm, easy to collapse. Such a ratio, in front of the failure of a friend to talk to me calmly, it is not too failure.
So I found that, if only by external labels, we basically do not see who is more successful who do not succeed. The key is to look at a person's heart.
It is not difficult to detect whether a person is successful or not. Every one of us can assume that you are forty years old, you have no job, or you have a low salary, no boyfriend or girlfriend. So, how would you feel? What state?
So you can see how successful you are.
In my opinion, the real meaning of worldly success is not successful, nor for self expansion up to influence more people. A successful person is not successful? Some are, some are not. We know that there are many successful people are still living in a troubled, anxious and fearful day, filled with jealousy, insecurity, anxiety, anger not yet appeased other emotions, such success is not truly successful people.
And a lot of humble people are not necessarily unsuccessful. Our district has a cleaning aunt, every time to see me and the children, with a very bright smile and talk to us. Two days ago, we met her at the fruit store. She just got off work, bought a bag of apricot, see us, immediately took out a few apricot, not to give the child. Now think about it, I think she's a very successful man。
Ordinary people like us can be seen everywhere。
By my standards, a truly successful person is not only to see him make a big contribution to the society, at the same time, his state of mind: he can not even in all circumstances, can still feel good, still have a sense of security, can be happy, balanced and positive, can not catch. Keep all kinds of style should be elegant, can get up to appreciate beauty, to have a sense of humor, and can continue to care for others, for others.
Real personal success is not measured in terms of money and fame, but by how your mind is trained. Because even the mundane success, the ultimate goal is also to money, status and fame and so on for a sense of security, respect, self-confidence, and psychological balance and satisfaction. The problem is that it is hard and unreliable to achieve the balance of mind with something else. These things, once you get, or get lost again, or have been constantly afraid of losing your worries, are unable to achieve peace of mind. Therefore, such a success is superficial, temporary, precarious, it is hardly a success, at best, just play a good game.
The real success is not afraid of the economic crisis and the stock market ups and downs, not afraid of being afraid of the trend of change, not afraid of exposure, decent or not, not afraid of public sector is to buy it. Because the real success in your heart, who can not take away.
Speaking of which, I think a lot of the old saying: "Anpinyuedao", "does not", "immune to temptations, poverty can not be changed"...... I think of the ancients China depicted the gentleman, sages of the standard, this is often what we believe to be pedantic, is to fool people, the feudal rulers by sociologist Marx. Webb called the "idealism" only aesthetic standards.
I think, this gentleman, sages, than now successful standard, closer to the true definition of success.
Write this, want to talk about my father.
My father has been in this life is the meaning of secular success: from the countryside to put pig baby, retired University Professor, head of Department of Chinese. During this period he made a lot of contributions to the Chinese department. The Chinese department is a person who is active and not well managed. Some teachers said, as long as your dad sitting in an office, you heart alone. At home, he almost every day up early to cook, is a very hard-working, very homely, good-natured husband and father.
I'm not talking about these successes.
Now think about it, about ten years since his father suffered from Parkinson. Because ten years ago, parents go to Australia to play, he began to write handshaken. A boat in Australia he waddled fell down, when we laugh, now know that Parkinson's symptoms.
In this family, he in the upper ability in the end, in my daughter. My daughter talk to action than he is agile, just three years old can push his wheelchair every day, give him the fruit, with a stick, find glasses, switch the TV, often look for him to learn the kindergarten teacher in class".
Dad is very difficult to work, to sit on the chair we need to command and dispatch, as slowly as the spacecraft docking. Up and down the stairs is very dangerous, I said this is your small step, a big step for mankind. Constipation is also very serious. Mom said that other people have more fun than you.
My mother is a child, he is 75 years old, when the body is not good will be nagging complaints. The nurse is a forthright person, loud, sometimes anxious also said he. I am busy with my children every day, or busy with their own things, often ignored, sometimes impatient.
And the father silently bear all this: physical, psychological. He never complained, not angry, not pessimistic. Uncomfortable when you sat frowning. When we are good, we look at you kindly. He is concerned about current affairs and everyone at home. He tried to help us, but in the end he was always helping and being told. He doesn't talk much, but often stunned. Yesterday my mother went to the market to buy his favorite corn. To eat him, ask him: "bawmi OK?" Dad said: "no good wife."
Most of the time, looking at his crutches in constant trembling, watching him hard to take every step, my heart will give birth to the immense respect.
Sometimes holding him, imperceptibly into his world, empathy to experience his every move, think of him every time need to mobilize the strength and courage, often very shocking. I think if I make a movie about his life, it will shock many people。
I told my dad that all of this knowledge you have in your life is nothing else, just to get you to fight Parkinson gracefully。
As we have said before, success is the grace to live without anything. Nothing compares to my father. When a person can not take care of themselves, if you can still be elegant, it is the biggest success。
Confucius said, seventy and have whatever is desired no more than a moment. That is to say, at the age of seventy, we should be able to really practice their own heart. So look, dad did Confucius standard.
Later, I told my father this evaluation, he slowly replied: "this is not right." I asked why I thought I was missing or wrong. He said: "not done."
Finally, I would like to quote a definition of success that I like very much.
American writer and thinker Emerson said: can often laugh and the heart is full of love; to get the respect and the love of children; to win sincere praise and critics can endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to see the merits of others; to pay their own; the world can become a little bit better. Whether by a healthy child, a garden path, or one from you and improve social conditions; with great enthusiasm to play, laugh, sing; to know even one life because you have to breathe easier -- this is the success. The.
译文：
我们可以列出一大堆关于成功的标准：家庭幸福、事业有成、身体健康、充分发挥了自己的潜力、生活得有目标有追求、在专业领域有所造就、取得了广泛的认可和尊重、对社会有贡献、做自己喜欢的事……
我们每个人都有自己对成功的定义。每个人的成功概念都不尽相同，因为大家的个人经历、价值观和对生活的认识都不同。而成功大概也真的要因人而异，我们都要自己去寻找自己的具体的成功标准。
我们在不同的年龄段也有不同的成功标准：学业、找工作、婚恋、事业、教育孩子……孔子就规划出了不同阶段的不同任务：三十而立、四十不惑、五十知天命、六十耳顺、七十而从心所欲不逾矩。
我过去的成功概念是：要尽可能对更多的人有好的影响。影响的人越多越好，影响程度越大越好。我从很早就这样想，我也很清楚这完全是出于自我(ego)的需要。在很年轻的时候我做过电视节目，还当过主持人。很多年后，我当过教师。我发现当老师能更直观地感受到自己给他人带来的影响，而且这影响也更深远，这感觉比当主持人在那娱乐大家要好很多。
我还认为写书能影响很多人，所以写过书。当然很快发现能影响多少人取决于你的书销量如何，你是否会炒作。我还认为电影能影响很多人，所以在国外进一步学了电影，也尝试去写电影。
总之，想到自己做的事情将会影响很多人，就感觉很爽，觉得自己很了不起。
后来我的想法有了一些变化。
我的一个朋友，四十岁了，工作失意，没有女朋友，情绪很低落。我跟他说你不见得像你以为的那样不成功。
因为我想到周围一些貌似比他混得好的人，在遇到一点挫折时，就表现出异常的不平静，极易崩溃。这么一比，前面那个有失败感的朋友能平静地跟我谈话，也就不算太失败。
所以我发现，如果单凭外在的种种标签，我们基本上看不出来谁更成功谁不成功。关键是看一个人的内心。
要检测一个人是否成功并不难。我们每个人都可以假设一下：你四十岁，没工作或者职位卑微收入微薄、没男友或女友，总之，你没有你这个年龄的人应该有的一切。那么，你会是什么感觉?什么状态?
这样你就可以知道自己究竟有多成功了。
在我看来，真正的成功并非世俗含义的事业有成，也不是为了让自我膨胀起来而去影响更多人。事业有成的人算不算成功?有的是，有的不是。我们知道有很多事业有成的人，每天依旧生活在惴惴不安、忧虑重重之中，内心充满了嫉妒、焦虑、忿忿不平、不安全感等情绪，这样的成功人士自然不是真正成功的人。
而很多地位卑微的人也不见得就是不成功的。我们小区有个保洁阿姨，每次见到我和孩子，都以极其灿烂的笑容跟我们说话。前两天，我们在水果店碰到她。她刚下班，买了一兜杏，看到我们，马上掏出几个杏，非要给孩子。现在想想，我觉得她是个挺成功的人。
我们身边这样的平凡的成功人士随处可见。
以我的标准，一个真正成功的人不仅仅看他对社会做出多大贡献，同时也看他内心的状态：他能否即便在一无所有的情况下，仍然能对自己感觉不错，仍有安全感，能开心、平衡、积极，能不抓狂，能保持应有的种种风格，能优雅得起来，能欣赏美，能有幽默的力量，并能继续关心他人、为他人付出。
真正的个人意义上的成功不以金钱和名气来衡量，而是看你的心灵修炼到了怎样的境界。因为即便是世俗的成功，其最终目标也还是以金钱、地位和名气等等来换得安全感、尊重、自信，以及心理上的种种平衡和满足。而问题是，用外来的东西去达到内心的平衡状态，这种方法又费力又不可靠。这些身外之物，一旦你得不到，或者得到了又失去，或者得到了又时时忧虑害怕失去，那你都无法达到内心的平和。所以，这样的成功是表面的、一时的、岌岌可危的，也就几乎算不上是成功了，充其量只是玩好了某一样游戏而已。
真正的成功是不怕股市起落和经济危机、不怕被人曝光、不怕潮流变迁、不怕行业体面与否、不怕大众是否买账。因为真正的成功在你的心里，是谁也夺不走的。
说到这，我想起了很多古老的说法：“安贫乐道”、“不以物喜，不以己悲”、“富贵不能淫，贫贱不能移”……我想起了中国古人所描绘的君子、圣贤的标准，这常常被我们认为是迂腐的、是封建统治者用来愚昧百姓的、被社会学家马克斯.韦伯称为“只有审美意义的理想主义”的标准。
我认为，这个君子、圣贤的标准，比起现在事业有成的标准，更接近真正的成功的定义。
写到这，想讲讲我的父亲。
我爸爸这辈子已经算是达到了世俗含义的成功了：从农村的放猪娃，到退休时的大学教授、中文系系主任。这期间他为中文系做出了许多贡献。中文系是个人人都思想活跃，不太好管理的机构。有的老师说，只要你爸在办公室里坐着，大家心里就有底了。在家里，他几乎天天起早做饭，是个很勤劳、很顾家、脾气又好的丈夫和爸爸。
我要说的不是这些成功。
现在想想，大概父亲患帕金森已有十年历史了。因为十年前父母去澳洲游玩时，他写字就开始手抖。一次在澳洲的游船上他站不稳摔倒了，当时我们一笑了之，现在明白那就是帕金森症状。
现在家里面，他在能力上排在最后，在我女儿之后。我女儿说话行动都比他利索，刚三岁就能推动他的轮椅，每天给他递水果、拿拐杖、找眼镜、开关电视，还常学幼儿园老师的样子给他“上课”。
爸爸行动很吃力，往椅子上坐需要我们指挥调度，缓慢得像太空船在对接。上下楼梯很惊险，我说这是你的一小步，人类的一大步。便秘也很严重。妈妈说别人生孩子都比你这痛快。
妈妈是急性子，自己也75岁了，身体不好时难免会唠叨抱怨。保姆是个直率的人，大嗓门，有时急了也大声说他两句。我每天忙着孩子，或是忙自己的事，对爸爸常常忽视，有时也没耐心。
而爸爸就默默地承受着这一切：身体上的、心理上的。他从不抱怨、不发火、不悲观。不舒服时，就眉头紧锁地坐着。好一些时，就慈祥地看着我们。他关心时事、关心家里的每个人。他常试图帮我们，但最后总是帮了倒忙，又被说一顿。他说话不多，但常常语出惊人。昨天妈妈去早市买了他爱吃的玉米。给他吃了，问他：“包米好不好?”爸爸说：“没有老伴好。”
很多时候，看着他的拐杖在不停地颤抖，看着他艰难地迈出每一步，我心里就生出无比的敬意。
有时扶着他时，不知不觉进入他的世界，感同身受去体验他的每一个举动，想想他每时每刻需要调动的勇气和力量，常常很受震撼。我想如果拍一部他的生活的电影，那一定能震撼很多人。
我曾跟爸爸说过，你这辈子所有的这些学问不为别的，就为了让你现在能优雅地跟帕金森作斗争。
前面说过，成功就是在一无所有的情况下仍能优雅地生活。跟我父亲相比，一无所有算什么。当一个人几乎不能自理时，如果仍能优雅得起来，那才是最大的成功。
孔子说，七十而从心所欲不逾矩。就是说，到了七十岁，我们应该能真正修炼好了自己的内心。这么看，爸爸已经做到了孔老夫子的标准。
后来我把这个评价告诉了爸爸，他缓慢地回答：“这样说不对。”我问为什么，以为我遗漏了或弄错了什么。他说：“没有做到。”
最后想引用一个我很喜欢的成功的定义。
美国文学家、思想家爱默生这样说：能够时常大笑并且心中充满爱;能得到智者的尊重和儿童的喜爱;能赢得真诚的评论家的赞许并能忍受虚假的朋友的背叛;能欣赏美;能看到他人的优点;能付出自己;能把世界变得更好一点——不论是以一个健康的孩子、一个花园小路、还是一个由你而得到改善的社会状况;能以无比的热情玩过、笑过、歌唱过;能知道哪怕只有一个生命因为你的存在而呼吸得更容易一些——这，就是成功了。